They greet and say goodbye with kisses on the mouth, long embraces, and affectionate words of love and admiration.

It feels more like an unhealthy, overly close mother-son dynamic that prevents Tom from fully committing to our relationship -- which he claims he wants. Honestly, it’s also a huge turn-off. Thanks to therapy,

In today's Dear Annie column, Annie Lane offers advice to a reader who does not like the dynamic her boyfriend has with another woman.